I Got Incredible Advice About Depression From A ‘Loser’
He was one of my best friends
4 min readSep 27, 2020
“Go wash your car. Then when you’re done, wash it again.”
Cigar smoke hung in the air around my friend’s face as he said that. He was on the back-half of 40 years old. Ex-military. Tattoos all over his body. Smoked 3–4 black and milds per day.