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How To Stop Feeling Dissatisfied With Your Life
You are okay. Okay?
“Advertising is based on one thing: happiness. And you know what happiness is? Happiness is the smell of a new car. It’s a billboard on the side of the road that screams with reassurance that whatever you’re doing, it’s okay. You are okay.”
-Don Draper, Mad Men
The above quote is about advertising. Deeper, though, it highlights something all humans need..
The need to feel okay.
During most of 2020, I didn’t feel okay.
I felt inadequate. I felt like I needed to be doing more. I needed to make more money, be a better boyfriend, have more friends, not get angry on Facebook, and — well — I’ll stop there since it’s a long list.
The truth is I didn’t even have a hard 2020. I made a good bit of money online, I had a nice place to stay, and I never went hungry. I even donated a bit of money to those in need. I still felt inadequate, though.
There’s a desire in many of us to always want more. To want to do more. Make more money. Be with a more beautiful person. To walk into a room and command attention.
“You are okay” is not me talking about body positivity or anything like that.
